#22 Male chastity class

POOF!
In a cloud of smoke, a Genie appears in front of me, and intones,
"I am the Genie of Fantasy.  I can not make you rich or famous, but I CAN put you into any fantasy world you wish.  You can stay in the fantasy world as long as you want... you can say the words, "Teenie Genie, take me home" or if you fall asleep, you'll return to this real world, and only one minute in real time will have passed."
I eagerly told him what I wanted.
POOF!

Merry and I were at the Grue and had signed up to do an early class on 'male chastity'.
It was not meant to be a demonstration class, showing off various devices.
IT was an 'instructional', under the topic, "WHY male chastity."
Once the class convened, with about fifteen students, I stripped to nothing but a CB 6000 on my penis.
Merry began talking:

"So, here we are. Why male chastity? What are the benefits of locking your guy up?

   You are not punishing your man - you are protecting him from his perfectly normal lack of self-control. Which is to say, 

 It prevents him from masturbating. Male masturbation is a filthy habit. It’s addictive, selfish, and disrespectful to women. Chronic masturbation has the effect of substantially diminishing a man’s natural sexual desire for you.  It unfortunately teaches him that his orgasm is primary, and hers is secondary.

  You are not denying him sexual pleasure. In fact, when you do release him from his male chastity device, sex will feel better for him and his orgasms will become much more intense. Because he can’t even get an erection without your permission, it instantly changes the dynamics of the relationship.

   You are not denying yourself the sex life you deserve. While he’s locked up he’ll use his mouth and fingers to provide you with sexual satisfaction on a regular basis. And, there are ways that you have satisfying penetrative sex while he is still under lock and key… which is to say, it keeps his sexual focus and energy on you and  it will substantially increase his desire to orally service you.

  So, men will try to claim they need to have regular orgasms to stay healthy. This simply isn’t true. They do need to have ejaculations every so often; but you can make this happen in a matter of minutes without him getting an erection or having an orgasm.

  Keep in mind, hundreds of thousands of married couples are in the male chastity lifestyle. It’s not kinky. In fact, the odds are that several of your friends already have their husband’s crown jewels locked away.  

  Furthermore, when done correctly, your man will feel more loved by you than he did before male chastity became a part of your life. In fact, most men eventually thank their wives for insisting on the lifestyle…

  Also, over time he’ll start to feel like more of a man, because he’ll know that all of his sexual energy is going towards pleasing you. He’ll like the fact that he no longer feels like a little boy who can’t help but play with his little pee-pee when you are not looking. Instead, he will be saving himself for you.

  You might like this, or not:  If he’s never been an ass-eater, after having his penis locked up for a few weeks, he will be.

  Moreover, this serves as a constant reminder to him of your authority.

   And, because this makes his orgasms entirely dependent on your generosity, it positively incentives him to honor you, respect you, and motivates him to please you.

  As a prime benefit, this gives him the time and opportunity to substantially improve and perfect his oral skills.

   Additionally, this reinforces the idea that pussy is a precious gift that must be earned, and is to be savored and appreciated on those rare occasions when he does get it.

  Another lesson: this teaches him that sexual activity with you doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with his penis.

  And truly, this deepens his submission to you, and will cause him to worship the ground you walk on.

  Furthermore, this will significantly improve his attitude, and make him more generous, caring, kind, respectful, and loving. It will help soften the sharper edges of his me-first masculinity. It will make him more of a listener than a talker.

  And, if you're into it, this helps prepares him for the eventuality of anal penetration, and getting the strap-on. Because his penis isn’t being sexually stimulated, it has the effect of gradually turning other parts of his body into erogenous zones, particularly his anus and his prostate. With patience and persistence, he can be trained to orgasm from stimulation in that region via your finger, or the strap-on.

   So, you'll find that if his orgasms are consistently controlled and severely restricted, he will eventually get to the point where he will do just about anything to cum. You’ll be amazed by what he’ll do for you.

   As a final note, while at first you’ll only keep him locked up for a few days at a time, eventually he should be restricted to eight to 12 orgasms a year. This is more than enough. Fact is, many women allow him even less than that.

So, any questions?"

One woman raised her hand. "In your experience, does this ... really work that way?"

"Absolutely," said Merry.  "When out of chastity, I know he jacks off ... he's critical, he's crabby, he's irritable, he snaps at me and other people; while In chastity, well, he doesn't jack off, he's just ... all around nice, a perfect husband."

"A question for him," said a guy. "Does it ... hurt to wear?"

"You might have to experiment with different devices, different size rings that go around the base, here, but for me, no, I don't notice it until I go to urinate, when I remember that I almost have to sit down, or it might spray around a bit."

"How about ... underwear?"

"I don't recommend tight underwear, as it pulls down or pushes up on this. I favor anything that has a pouch to store the device."

"What do you do when you go to the gym?"

"Thats truly hypothetical because I've never been to one.  But I am an exhibitionist as maybe you can tell, with me standing here like this, but ... it would not bother me.  If I got 'funny' looks, I wouldn't care. If it started a conversation, I'd be glad to talk about it."

"Is a bulge evident under clothing?"

"Depends on the clothing. Tight pants, probably.  TIghts or yoga pants ... for sure, but I wear them anyway. I don't care."

"How long are you kept locked up?"

"Merry..." I said.

Merry said, "I REALLY like to have sex ...intercourse ... with HIM.  He gives fantastic oral, but again, I really like intercourse. So, depriving him also deprives me. But when he's not locked up, I know he jacks off when he thinks I'm not paying attention, and that deprives me even more.  So I keep him locked up until I am ready, really ready, to have sex, and I'm sure that he is too.  I use a random number generator, with a range of seven to twenty one days. I never tell him how long it's going to be, gotta keep him guessing. Once I DO unlock him ... and we have sex ... he has to lock up again after his shower the very next time he is going to work."
"So, no extended periods of time?"
"No, as I said, I enjoy intercourse too much."
"He doesn't ... try to argue with you about it?"
"No," said Merry, "I think he actually enjoys it."
I stood there and smiled, then said, "Before I met Merry, years ago, I was single, and I would masturbate ... quite often. I spent hours, stroking and edging and stopping, stroking and edging and stopping.  My days were filled with just work, and masturbating.  And when I allowed myself to climax, I felt such a crash ... I was get SO depressed, thinking, 'Is this all there is to my life?'  .... and after a respite I started up again.  Well, I ordered a chastity device, and locked myself up.  I knew where the key was, but it was by will power I did not use it, and I went about 80 days that first time without climaxing.  When I got my first adult real spanking, through a SpankThisHookups ad, I celebrated by taking it off, and having a very good session.  After that, I put it on for a couple weeks, took it off for a week....  then I met a Male Dom who wanted me locked up, for one month he said, unless he said otherwise. That started on a March first, then he ghosted on me, and I took it off at midnight on April 1st, and had a great session.  By that time, I had other pursuits, like looking to get spanked.  When Merry and I got together, we, as a couple, got into it, especially when I told her that I wanted help with masturbation control.  Do I enjoy being locked up?  That's hard to sort out, in my mind.  If I'm not locked up, yeah, I'm sure I would beat off. So, I do enjoy having her have control.  I like NOT having the crashes that come after a  long self-session.  I like the sexual energy I feel when I'm horny and know I can't do squat about it."
"How about ... the other things she talked about?"
"Well, I'd be an ass eater even without chastity, but she's not into it.  I love anal play, giving or receiving.  I love to service her orally. I can feel my penis trying to get hard within the cage. I know I'm nicer and more pleasant to her, and usually game for anything she wants to try.  So yeah, I think it's all valid."
"Anybody else?"
Nobody else had a question, then the students applauded us.
As they filed out, a few said, "Excellent class!" "I learned a lot, thank you."
As I dressed, I whispered, "Teenie Genie, take me home."

POOF! I was back in my living room.